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Men who squat at women's home out of convenience!

Let's start out by saying this post is NOT about male bashing it's about real life situations that have a occurred. Do you know someone or have you been in a situation with a man where you felt like this just doesn't feel right? You are holding down the household handling all the bills while he "squats".  Well we have noticed a trend with "some" men who are in between homes and use the vulnerability of a woman to have a place to lay their heads. It could be a host of different reasons maybe he is just coming out of a break up or lost his job. Some women put up with it because maybe shes lonely or his bedroom game is strong.  Never confuse lust for love. A man can be very humble and sweet when they are down and out don't get fooled.  Their is a difference with helping someone out in their time of need or just being plain foolish.  There is also nothing wrong with helping someone out while they're down on their luck however a man should be up fro...

It's another segment of "Let me Holla at You" from Styles4uRemixed

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Today we are talking finances between couples.  Who should pay what and why? Thank you to everyone in boxing me with all your blog topic suggestions.  I see you and you are appreciated! Check the video below and chime in.  Leave your comments!

Are you submissive to your mate?

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After reading an article in regards to submission in relationships I decided to ask a few folks their opinion on the subject.  Below is what they had to say: C. Hills wrote:   Husband & Wives are to submit to each other. As in respect & love not authority.  If we were created as his help mate why would we then have to obey him instead of complement him? H. Clark wrote: Husbands and wives should definitely have mutual respect and understanding for each other and I think some people get hung up on the whole semantics of the situation.  The truth is the man is the head of the household and when a woman understands this it makes the relationship/marriage run smoother. I'm not into the whole calling him "daddy" but whatever works for you. T. Lovelace wrote :  First of all, only a wife should submit to her husband not her boyfriend, friend etc.  By doing so, a wife creates a power position in not only her marriage, but in her household, fami...

Do you ask your significant other before making a change to your hair?

I asked a few people (men and women) if when making a change to their hair, would they ask their significant other below is how the conversation went Holly Wrote:  I consult …however the ultimate decision is mine. Dorien Wrote:  Not where I come from, no offense but if you have long hair and that makes me happy looking at you I be DAMN if you gonna take that away.  I'll be away. Holly Wrote:   It grows back Dorien! Sometimes it's nice to switch it up....make you feel like you have a new woman! When my husband cut off his locks it was sexy to me....like I was having an affair! Charo Wrote:   I do the same run it by him then decide on what I want to do Charo Wrote:    A new haircut can uplift a woman so much & agreeing with Holly, it's only hair. If a new "do" makes your woman happy so be it, if you're willing to leave her because of a hair cut then obviously there are other serious issues there, like control. Petra wrote:...